Well it takes a 25Watt resistor to drop the voltage from 24v to around 22.5v to offer the equivalent of the Lamp life extender already found as standard on most effects, so to dim the blub to a more appreciative level would require the use of a 50W+ wirewound resistor, pretty substantial heatsinking and a fair amount of space!. Sadly non of these are practical on the effects you have mentioned!.
This point takes me back to a discussion we had on here over the Summer, when we were debating the best lights to use at Weddings etc. My own feeling on this is that the most effective and powerful lighting is not ALWAYS the best route to go down for the Mobile D.J since the functions we do are for all ages.
Scanners, by design are almost impossible to control with regard to light spillage and not really practical for family or older persons functions where the scanner rotates around the room and keeps catching the eyes of those seated, or stood at the bar, which = annoyance and complaints from people who may otherwise be enjoying their evening, and at the end of the day that is the last thing you want.
Scanners (and smoke / snow etc) are great for Schools, 18th's etc where a young audience are present, but a big

for the average wedding, anniversary etc. Instead consider something more practical, in time, such as Moonflowers (NJD Datamoon, Constella Chameloen 4, NJD Chaos 2002 etc) where the beams can be aimed on the dancefloor or ceiling and once set up they stay put!.
I'm going to use Mikeee's experience once again, since his show is a great example of the lighting which a Mobile Disco should be using for an average function. If you are just starting out then these are the effects that you should be considering, rather than going for waggling mirrors and a huge price tag!.
(see below for Mikeees roadshow piccy)
If you look at the picture you can see that he uses moonflowers - usually 2 of each effect. All are pointed at the dancefloor

leaving the seating / bar area free of scanning light effects! the result? plenty of coloured light of the dancefloor where it belongs and no annoyance to the seated area of the audience.
Spin's show is also very similar and although using different effects to Mikeee, since his is mainly filled with Moonflowers and Pinspots (directional - i.e control over where the light goes) and ambient low wattage coloured lighting from his (many!) lightboxes. Again plenty of light and variation where it needs to be, but very little spillage beyond the dancefloor!.
So the general rule here is that you need something in addition to scanners. Yes, use scanners for the functions where they will be appreciated, but have other effects for the general functions with older age groups, and always leave the seating area darkened. In larger rooms I often point an NJD Chaos at ceiling level over the seating area, this often give enough ambient light so people aren't walking into each other

, but doesn't cause annoyance. Other useful effects in addition to moonflowers are UV Lights - very bright when the bride is on the dancefloor, and the Chauvet Abyss - a Colour changing rippling water effect and don't forget the good old retro oil wheel projector!.
If you must use your scanners for these sorts of functions then you may benefit from downgrading the bulbs to 24v 150W - these are the lower wattage equivalents to the 250W ELC. They are, harder to get hold of since they are very rare and not really used in Disco Equipment, but they do exist. Although this really won't solve your problem for the long term, since even 150W is still more than enough to blind your audience and it won't stop the mirror from directing the light beyond the dancefloor.